Comments?

January 11th, 2008 by qingfa83

We heard alot of comments throughout our life. Some are worth listening, some are not. But, do u ever think what is the intention of ur comments? Do u ever think before u speak? Do u know that every line or sentence u make does make a difference to other’s life?

I will frequently hear someone said" I heard that this guy/girl this this this that that that" Do u really the guy well? What is rumors? From the dictionary,

Rumors-

  1. A piece of unverified information of uncertain origin usually spread by word of mouth.
  2. Unverified information received from another; hearsay.

Word of mouth, one of the most powerful tool in life.

Do u feel humilated when someone said " U are Stupid!"

Do u feel happier when someone said" Wow, u look gorgeous tonight"

Simpler words like that have the ability to make u feel agitated or in high spirits. So please, think twice before u make any comments, or otherwise, please keep ur damn big mouth shut…

a little update

September 18th, 2007 by qingfa83

Has been running for the past few days. Need to train up for the upcoming ippt,but i know <9.14 is out of the qns for now.Running at night is so shiok can. The world look so peaceful, everything seems to come to a halt, enjoying the night breeze hitting on my face. but at the same time, things will start running in the mind simultaneously.  Nowadays life becoming more busier than ever. Preoccupied with tuition is enough to kill me. Luckily work is not so tedious, if not i tink will not have any time to breathe. Sorry to all my friends, who i have neglected all these while, i will try to meet up with u all soon for the best i can.

memories

August 12th, 2007 by qingfa83

Things that put a scar on u physically or mentally will stay in ur heart forever. It will just come back to you when you don’t notice it. It will bring back memories, some are good and some are bad. U cant run away, it just how u accept it and make the best out of it. We can always look at things in two ways, in a pessimistic or optimistic way. I will choose the latter one. One of the scars that imprint in my mind is the one i got from my training as a diver. Now whenever i tink of it, it makes me feel that if u dun give up so easily, things are bound to change, and its for good.

A special day

June 11th, 2007 by qingfa83

June 11 is a special day for me. why? dun ask me cos i not gg to tell u hahahaha

Holidays

May 8th, 2007 by qingfa83

Image003 After the exam, i went to cycle with my friends. Its really a very long trip which i cycled for almost 110km according to clement. I always enjoy nite cycling, looking into the world when its dark and bright are totally two different feeling. When in the day, the city is busy and the stress is tremendous high. But at nite, we ponder and emotions fills our heart and soul. I love the feeling at nite, ponder wat had happened and why did it happen in this way. In life, we always plan. But nevertheless, it always dun follow according to plan. As the saying " if u fail to plan, then plan to fail". Some time its good to let nature follow its own course, rite. In my life, its full of ups and downs. There are too many regrets in life, and alot of them are created by ourselves.I read kel’s blog and started to ponder, so i decided to write it down instead.

The biggest regret in my life is that i nvr treat my dad better when he was alive. Now he is gone, this regret will carry with me all my life. Our family is the most important pple, they will stand by u no matter wat mistake u make. When u r down, they are always available to u. But when we r out there having fun, did we ever thought of sharing the joy with them? The ans is obvious. U nvr noe when they will leave us, wat wait till that day when they are unable to hear us or touch us anymore, then we start to regret. I am writing this as a reminder to myself and to u who are reading my blog. I always like to imagine this scenario, take it that tml is ur last day in life. Wat would u want to say to ur loves one, wat would u do. Ponder for a while, and tink why i keep that till someday rather then do that now?

Feeling rite now~

April 17th, 2007 by qingfa83

Today is wednesday already, but I feel that I have not done enuff for 08 yet. Still got alot of things on hand, alot of modules haven study yet. tink this sem abit cui liao, but nonetheless, i will not give up till the last moment as i always try to tell myself and others( inspired from the advice given by "lao tay" to yingmu in slamdunk if u ever watch that comic b4). Life is such a routine for me now, morning wake up, go to sch till wee hours, go back slp and then the cycle continue again. I hate exams but at the same time i also like it. Cos this is the time where friends get together and pia. Its like the enemy attacking the country, the army gathered and prep for the war. Everyone is on the same line, same mentality and same goal. I quite like this feeling, LOL. I still have the same ambition, to work in the Star Team. But now, my hopes are not as high as in the past. Maybe its because as I get older, i start to tink abt the risk and everything. Ok, i shall stopped now and continue my plan to conquer the enemy. Its a tough journey but "I will Survive"……..

disappointment…

March 30th, 2007 by qingfa83

sigh… Sometimes things dun go to the way u wan it to be.. Recently i had a quiz, i thought i was quite well prep for it.. but when the quiz come, i realized that there are so many qns that i cant do.. I really disappointed with myself, but not in the sense that i am sad. In the other way, it make me more motivated to study harder. This semester, i think the modules are all quite tough. But looking ahead, it quite a good thing that it gg to end soon also. I really looking forward to go pulau ubin, adventure trail run and etc with the GC & LC. Alright, Let’s study hard enuff now and enjoy later….

March 19th, 2007 by qingfa83

hmm time to update my blog again. Recently, one of my friend’s lappy was spoiled, she was damn sad but she said to herself " things happen for a reason". Her words let me ponder for quite sometimes and i tink how true is this statement. U will not be reading my blog if u are not concern abt me at all, and because u care, that y u are reading it. Thanks, and that’s the reason.
Been through ups and downs in life, I really appreciate all the friends that have walked along with me, pulled me up when i fall and stand by me. I treasure my kinships, friendship and etc. Because i noe its not easy to maintain the friendship that one has built up. We can have alot of hi-bye friends, but hw many are true friends? 
Imagine u are left with one hr of ur life now, wat would u wan to say to ur friends, parents/siblings and loves one? why wait till then to say? u nvr noe whether u will be able say it to them.  life is very fragile, and we onli live once. dun be shy la.
I am tired liao, for those who are reading this , just wan to say to u that i glad that u spent ur time reading it and when i say we are friends, its meant forever.

March 9th, 2007 by qingfa83

Woo~~Finally can catch back some slp, been so busy with the quizzes for the past 2 wk, and i need to bring my focus back again because there will be a bus finance quiz nxt tue.
haha for now, i am looking forward to sunday, because its the X-physique.I nvr join the event b4, so its a new experience for me~
Ever since i get to noe this grp of friends, i tink my life in uni has brighten up alot. Uni is the last phase of study life we gg to go thru", after this 2 yrs, our life will be equivalent to a bull(u noe wat i mean). For now, i will look forward to gg to sch.Because i noe that i wont be able to have this kind of enjoyment once we start working. The times we study together bring our bond even closer. We have so much fun, even studying. I am so grateful that in times of need, they are there for me. Thanks everyone, especially every members of NUSGC & LC.

my little thoughts

February 10th, 2007 by qingfa83

haha saw this email my friend sent me, when i read it i felt so true. this is some advice to the guys out there, if u really care for her, be a man and do the rite thing!

 

IF ONLY THIS CAN BE TRUE GIRLS, GUYS LEARN FROM IT!

ADVICE TO BOYFRIENDS FOR THEIR GF’S: GET IT RIGHT!!!

1. If you like her…ASK HER OUT already!!!!!!!!

2. When you hug her, put your ARMS around her WAIST and hold her close.

3. When you walk next to her, get as CLOSE as you can to her.

4. If she’s the only one in your life, TELL HER.

5. ALWAYS let her knows how much you like her, love her, or think about her.

6. Give her presents and cards for no reason, SHE WILL RETURN THE FAVOUR…ALWAYS.

7. If she hangs up on you, call her right back.

8. Always offer to pay. If she says NO twice, then let her pay but make a deal that you get to pay next time (offer a date too!).

9. Kiss her lightly every chance you get.

10. Look in her eyes and kiss her on the lips, forehead, or nose.

11. If she says she’s cold, >don’t be an idiot and say "Me too." and stand there; give her your jacket or just simply hold her in your arms.

12. Don’t force her to do anything she’s not comfortable with.

13. Invite her to dinner or somewhere where you can talk, instead of the movies.

14. Try not to ask her if she’s mad at you EVERY TIME you speak to her.

15. Always tell her you LOVE her only if you really mean it.

16. DON’T pressure her to do anything she isnt READY to do. When she is ready, she will let you know. She just wants everything to be more SPECIAL and PERFECT. So appreciate what she does do with you.

17. DON’T go and tell your friends anything that happens between you two, cause it will hurt her and make her mad…and it will
NEVER happen again.

When a GIRL is quiet, Millions of things are running through her mind.

When a GIRL is not arguing, she is thinking deeply.

When a GIRL looks at you with eyes full of questions, she is wondering how long you will be around.

When a GIRL answers "I’m fine" after a few seconds, she is not at all fine.

When a GIRL stares at you, she is wondering why you are lying.

When a GIRL lies on your chest, she is wishing for you to be hers forever.

When a GIRL wants to see you everyday, she wants to be pampered.

When a GIRL says "I love you", she means it.

When a GIRL says "I miss you", no one in this world can miss you more than that